How We Got Our Blessings

I meant to take some photos of everyone's awesome mugs to share, but I completely spaced, which seems to be happening a lot lately. But I would like to say thank you to Gara and Emily. It was a great craft meeting and I love my mug! I mean Lucy even did the craft, that is saying something! 

I did want to touch on something Bunny said during her mentor moment. With Thanksgiving coming up in a few days it is the time when we think of all our blessings and ways to give back to others. But I don't know if we often acknowledge something that Bunny said, which is how we got our blessings.

I read an article (link below) the other day about this very topic. It talked about explaining to your kids why it is important to give to others by explaining to them ways your family has been given to. I highly recommend reading the article. 

It made me think about ways my family and I have benefited from others giving. Thinking all the way back to my father's family being accepted into this country from Greece through Ellis Island, to myself getting to study in a state of the art sculpture lab because alumni generously donated to UNF. I thought about when my husband lost his job and we were able to make ends meet by collecting unemployment until he found another job. My grandmother overcoming cancer because of advancements in medicine that other people funded by donating to cancer research. Even things like the incredible childhood I had because my parents were selfless and provided the best they could. It really made me realize I have a lot to pay forward and I hope my kids feel the same. 

I challenge you all to think of the ways your family has benefited from others giving. Whether it is government programs funded by the taxes people pay, private donations that have helped your family in one way or another, or just someone with a good heart that has made your life a little better. I bet you can make a pretty long list! 

With a thankful heart,
Jessica 


Be simple. Be sophisticated.

Today's meeting was fantastic! Our speakers were wonderful and the honesty everyone shared is what makes MOPS so special to me. 


I came home and emailed my mother-in-law. I shared the Momastery article with her and thanked her for her masterpiece (don't tell Nick I referred to him as a masterpiece, his head is big enough). I have a hard time with the fact that my family and Nick's family operate very differently. I try to remind myself that it all comes from a loving place, which is what matters the most, but I don't always act in the kindest or in the most sophisticated way. 

The article, which if you haven't read please do yourself a favor and read it now (link below), really hit me. I was a teary eyed mess when I read the last paragraph. I saved this quote in my phone, "Be kinder than necessary, being mindful that the piece of art it took her a lifetime to weave, her masterpiece, she gave to you, to keep you warm at night. One day you’ll give your masterpiece away, too. Be simple. Be sophisticated." 

As a mother of two boys the thought that one day I will have to let them go breaks my heart a little. I will do my best to think of the above quote when I find myself frustrated with my in-laws. 

Momastery link: http://momastery.com/blog/2012/01/11/on-weaving-and-repentance-2/

Feeling humbled, 
Jessica